Monday, April 29, 2013

Fuck your sexuality



  • Vent: This is what I am tired of in the Erotic Community as I will call it :)

  • I am tired of people who are so engulfed in their sexuality and their views of sexuality that they make it the gospel truth and insist it is something that we must adhere to.

  • I am monogamous and it really is not by choice. We accept that homosexuality is not by choice, but can't do the same for monogamy. I have tried to be polyamorous and polyandrous- I am neither. I have tried lesbianism. I like dick. I guess I am considered "traditional" heterosexual. What the fuck is wrong with that? There is absolutely nothing wrong with being who you are sexually whatever that may imply. (By the way, I have had this talk with Progressive Lovers who are very lovely people and they have heard me.)

  • There are so many people that do various sexual things and expect me to be an "expert" on them or even try them because I study sex. I'm sorry. I will never fuck a horse or do porn. I am too shy to fuck in front of people. I am not much of a voyeur because when I watch someone fuck usually it is comical to me- not because I'm embarrassed, but because the people fuckin sound or look goofy as hell.

  • I have gotten pretty tired of people trying to convince me and have even tried to manipulate me to join in on sexual escapades simply because I study sex and I am working toward becoming a sex educator and therapist. 

  • Homosexuality is not perverted... neither are orgies and sex parties.... neither are 3somes... neither is masturbation... neither is regular old missionary position. THe perversion comes from the people and their constant push to get people to adapt what they feel is right and truth sexually. 

  • In the words of Carlton Pearson, we don't have to go along to get along. However we must remember how a lot of these revolutions started, including sexually. All it comes from is rebellion from what is considered acceptable and discriminates against all others. Having a great sex life does not mean you have to convert anyone else to like what you like. Some people sound like televangelists preaching all this good news while preaching condemnation if you are not on the bandwagon. GEt a fuckin life... or a dildo... or chinese balls... or whatever it is that you really want to try...

  • Imposing your sexual energy onto to someone else does nothing but expose you for what you really want. Go for what you want. Stop bullshittin trying to convert others. There are many other issues that are more important than to get everyone to understand that monogamy is "not natural." If that is the case neither is homosexuality, bisexuality, trisexuality, etc. The only thing natural about sex is YOU and what you make of it. Everything else is just multiple streams of sexuality that may not flow through you.

  • Be confident in yourself... that is the only thing that matters. Not everybody sucks dick, takes it in the ass, or suck on toes. Some folks need to get over themselves and stop trying to show their ass... or the their tits or dick for all that matters. We get it. You fuck and you are comfortable in the way you fuck, who you fuck, who all you fuck with, how many times you fuck, how many people you have or will fuck, how many you will fuck all at the same time, how long you can fuck and/or suck, how deep you can go, how many lovers you have while married and how cool your spouse is with it and vice versa... The sexual smorgasbord has been established and there is no need to reiterate how you make it look grand.

  • Let's focus on sexual deviancy such as pedophilia and racism. What about rape and how to survive and heal from it while regaining your sexual confidence back? How about effective ways of making your marriage or partnership work in the area of intimacy or how to be honest about what you want? Let's teach the people how to be comfortable with their real self and how to master that rather than preach the ABC's of "How to fuck" and why you should be fucking who you want. Some shit is not that serious folks.....

  • Being confident in your sexuality does not mean you have to put it on blast. There is nothing wrong with privacy as long as no one is getting hurt or abused in the process. Some people want to be a closet freak. Some people want to be gay but don't want to broadcast it. Its not because they are ashamed... its because they want you to mind your fuckin business. 

  • I'm speaking from personal experience, from studies, and from encounters with people who have seeked my counsel. We forget that sexuality is a form of vulnerability. Not everyone wants to or is ready to remove the fig leaves. Even then, nakedness does not mean you are exposed, it just means that you are comfortable in your own skin regardless of who sees. 

  • Now, stop it with the bullshit. You ain't bought that life no way :)

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